[Birthday Countdown: 35] Why do I look so unhappy? It is not that I am mad, sad, or upset, this is just my natural relaxed look. I do have an attitude, but I keep it to myself... most of the time. I do smile occasionally, but it makes me look goofy when I see myself on camera. I believe that there is a balance in smiling. This is one of the looks I use when I want to stay focused on something.