So the other day I was volunteering at a food pantry. My job was to carry the boxes of food to people's cars. So this lady was about to try and pick up this one box and I said "I'll carry that." She said "I killed my husband, I think I can carry a box." So I backed off and she tried to pick it up, but she couldn't. And then she said "Okay, you can carry it for me." So I did.