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03/21/2016 1:14 AM ·Spoilers

Maybe you guys can help me. Explained in comments.↓↓↓↓

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  • Kellen

    03/21/2016 2:58 AM ·Spoilers

    I have this exact same problem. I'm pretty soft-spoken, usually getting cut off by people or ignored or such. It's so easy to find the words in my head, but they disappear the moment I need to actually use them.

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  • Krauss

    03/21/2016 7:02 AM ·Spoilers

    The internet gives everyone a voice, even those who wouldn't normally get an audience or have the courage to speak up. I used to be really shy (still am a little), but I found it helped me a lot to get over that by slowly opening up to people I played with and interacting more. It used to take me a few weeks to get used to joining a new group and being myself, but I then found it easier over time.

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  • Krauss

    03/21/2016 7:04 AM ·Spoilers

    The thing about some people who want to look for others to chat with is that they tend to be the types to sit down and wait for others to approach. And when everyone else is sitting down and no one getting up, it gives the illusion that there's no one interesting and nothing to do. Sometimes, like in real life, you have to take the risk and approach someone yourself.

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  • Krauss

    03/21/2016 7:06 AM ·Spoilers

    When I chat with someone and they bring up about something, I share my own experience as well in return. But because I tend to have a chatter-mouth online, I get afraid that I'm acting too self-absorbed when really I enjoy speaking what's on my mind a little too much, and I can see how that can get intimidating. It's my way to keep the conversation going.

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  • Krauss

    03/21/2016 7:07 AM ·Spoilers

    Some like it when I do that because they feel like they're not good at holding a conversation but still want to chat. But some also prefer having their conversations in short, quick bursts or don't have time. People are different, and so are their preference, so it can also be about finding the right person to chat with. Mention how you prefer it, see if you can work together on it.

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  • Krauss

    03/21/2016 7:09 AM ·Spoilers

    Even now, I can go on and on with little trouble or effort. I'm not completely sure how I can do this or what the trick is, but I still reach a point where I run out of things to talk about when a conversation goes on long enough. I still feel like I made a mistake if I write too many paragraphs, but I'm still the type that likes reading long responses; lots of words can mean that someone cares.

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  • Krauss

    03/21/2016 7:10 AM ·Spoilers

    I think you need to start with someone who you know will listen to you and work from there, so your self-confidence can build up. And just speak your mind with them, trying not to worry too much about what and how you're saying it - just be yourself. That someone being a friend that you know won't judge you harshly and likes it when you're yourself seems like the right one to start with.

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  • Mikaharu

    03/21/2016 9:09 AM ·Spoilers

    I somewhat agree with Krauss. In real life, I'm pretty shy, and because I'm always nervous, it effects how I speak. Rather than soft spoken, I become high pitched even though my voice is low. Which makes people question me. It's normal to be scared to show the inner you. When you show yourself, the one people may dislike or not care about is the self that you're showing, but others may appreciate-

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  • Mikaharu

    03/21/2016 9:13 AM ·Spoilers

    it too.And that's probably maybe one of the things that's scary about it. As a person with somewhat pessimistic views, I have to honk of the negatives before the positives. I think that nobody necessarily is uninterested or thinks it's stupid, just everyone has many things on their minds. Isn't it because you think they may be that others may get a vibe that it is? I think the first step is to-

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  • Mikaharu

    03/21/2016 9:16 AM ·Spoilers

    tell yourself that your words aren't stupid or uninteresting to the point where you can believe that thought and even if you don't believe it, say it because you're scared, say it because you don't know how to answer your own question, say it because friends are made in the weirdest ways and just cause they may do "not so good" things and haven't opened up doesn't prove that they are inherentlybad

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  • Mikaharu

    03/21/2016 9:20 AM ·Spoilers

    I say posts like this on here and I always regret it because in the end, I feel like I'm annoying the receiver in the end, but even when I regret it a lot (just for even bothering to speak) I think it's best that I don't delete them or take them back, because atleast they "heard" me, they saw what I said, and even though I might not have gotten my feelings across I tried.

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  • Mikaharu

    03/21/2016 9:22 AM ·Spoilers

    But most of all, your words are neither stupid not smart, they are neither important nor unimportant. They simply just cause an effect, and that effect just gets back at you and leads you to others. I'll leave cause I feel like I'm spamming but to me Krauss' words are relatable. Sorry I probably didn't help e v e ;;;;

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  • Kai-Shika

    03/21/2016 9:40 AM ·Spoilers

    wow just reading this just reminds of me.. im a shy guy irl, but here im all loose and talkative... and just like shira i always 2nd guess wat im going to say and write about cause of my rl o,o

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  • Ally

    03/21/2016 6:44 PM ·Spoilers

    I can't give you good advice, since I don't feel comfortable talking to people (or being around people. I feel super-self conscious and always second guess myself. I suspect social anxiety. :/ ). But I guess if you want to make a comic, just remember that we all (or most of us; I can't speak for all of us obviously XD) followed you for your great art and great personality. :)

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  • Ally

    03/21/2016 6:44 PM ·Spoilers

    No one will judge you. ^^

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  • Shira

    03/22/2016 5:55 AM ·Spoilers

    Thank you everyone for sharing your stories and giving awesome advice, all of it was helpful and eye opening. i'm not entirely sure what to say or how to respond to everyone though. ^-^' So... thank you! (i'm repeating myself.)

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  • isa

    03/22/2016 11:31 AM ·Spoilers

    I am so bad at finding the right words ugh xD I´ll keep it short I could say someting like Ik how u feel etc. no I cant I am not u but if u ever need somebody that listens to your problems I can I´ll be there for u :D and try to help u ! ^^ You´re amazing ! See ya around *flies away* x3

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  • Pumptin

    03/22/2016 1:04 PM ·Spoilers

    Glad my cringey tales can be of some use~♪

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  • Shira

    03/22/2016 3:39 PM ·Spoilers

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  • Shira

    03/22/2016 3:40 PM ·Spoilers

    It was a pleasure hearing them justi.

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