YO-KAI WATCH 2
Nighosty144
11/20/2016 1:52 AM ·Spoilers
How do I find/battle Orcanos (the black Oni)? (Pic unrelated. I needed a screeshot to make a Play Journal entry.)
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01/22/2017 5:15 PM ·Spoilers
ridiculous claims like I was lying to cover for you or something. In honesty, I think you both got upset over something that could have been cleared up easily. It seems like you pushed each other away when it wasn't necessary at all.
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01/22/2017 5:21 PM ·Spoilers
You both have had terrible experiences that cause you to make negative assumptions now, even when there's nothing to actually get upset about. Neither of you are bad people. But again, it's not something that can be "fixed" easily, and I don't have the training or education to do so. It makes me upset knowing you're miserable and that I can't do anything about it.
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01/22/2017 5:30 PM ·Spoilers
I will greatly consider your opinion in thinking that he has no grudge against me, since your input has a lot of value. I still however can't be sure, because he did it to me three times, and with you only once. You also wouldn't say those things because you have something he has and I don't, an orientation that's not the "standard" one, thus having a common interest with him. Unfortunately I
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01/22/2017 5:30 PM ·Spoilers
think there is a reason for distress, and there's no way to clear this up. As I explained, it might have been a misunderstanding on one scale, but the larger point remains, and it's a frontal disagreement and one notion I cannot stand. I'm glad you don't think I'm bad, and especially that you want to help me. Sadly I think not even a professional could clear this up.
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01/22/2017 6:09 PM ·Spoilers
That's because there were three things you said that could have been taken negatively. I am extremely careful with how I word things because I've had experience with people who are easily offended. I wouldn't have used the word "triggered" because I already knew its meaning. And he wasn't aggressive about it, he just said to please not use it unless you have the condition.
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01/22/2017 6:14 PM ·Spoilers
(cont.) And not having a "normal" orientation would not give me any advantage You won't know if a professional would help you unless you try... I didn't think one would help me either, especially since I waited so long, but it has helped me so much.
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01/22/2017 6:29 PM ·Spoilers
It's good that you're careful, but regardless of being aggressive, I think three times is too much. I don't know if it would or wouldn't, but the fact is that you don't share my tastes on those girls, so the problem is mine to deal with. I'm glad it worked for you, but I did try it before and it was useless. Unfortunately it is that way, and I'm a "sick freak" without any hopes of recovery.
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01/22/2017 7:19 PM ·Spoilers
Three times seems like a lot, but he wasn't distorting anything miniscule to an extreme amount. I don't think he would have backed down so easily if he was really out to attack you. Again, having different preferences is not the equivilant of persecution. Just as a side note, there are plenty of people of my orientation who are treated badly by people of his, and vice-versa.
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01/22/2017 7:22 PM ·Spoilers
Having that attitude about it is what's preventing you from improving. Saying it's hopeless is only going to make things worse. There are things you need to improve on, but you also need to accept that it's okay that some of your opinions/preferences are different from the majority.
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01/22/2017 7:25 PM ·Spoilers
Things like this, especially with such deeply-rooted issues, have no quick fix. Unfortunately, there's no immediate "cure", but that doesn't make it impossible to recover. It's like with drawing. You have to work on improving over time. Yes, it's difficult, but you'll never improve if you give up.
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01/22/2017 9:19 PM ·Spoilers
Thanks for the yeah. As you know, I have to draw an omake after, and that may take long, sorry (just finished). That makes sense. Maybe he just wanted to just annoy me rather than attack me, but yeah. Unfortunately such problems exist, don't they. It's pretty complicated, but either way, I don't like to be attacked because of mine, just as I don't attack others because of theirs.
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01/22/2017 9:19 PM ·Spoilers
He wouldn't attack you on this issue because yours means you don't like those girls like I do. I agree, but sadly, as you know, there's no quick fix. Since you want me to get better, I'll try though. I'm happy you think that my opinions being different is okay.
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01/22/2017 10:40 PM ·Spoilers
He thought you were saying that you liked kids in a way that is very bad, and he understandably got angry about it. He got upset because he didn't know that this was completely incorrect. He would have reacted the same way no matter who said it. It was never personal.
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01/22/2017 10:40 PM ·Spoilers
He wasn't trying to annoy you, he was not attacking you because of your orientation, and he was not targeting you for any discriminatory reason. That's what I've been trying to say all this time.
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01/23/2017 4:54 AM ·Spoilers
I don't think he got understandably angry because he jumped into a bad conclusion, which is annoying and makes it sound like he was carefully looking for possible leeways I could give for him to accuse me. You're trying to tell me he has nothing against me and even gave reasons for each of the three times but I sadly am in doubt. I am not sure; your arguments are sound, but the
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01/23/2017 4:54 AM ·Spoilers
ou're trying to tell me he has nothing against me and even gave reasons for each of the three times but I sadly am in doubt. I am not sure; your arguments are sound, but the fact that misunderstanding aside, he still has that opinion I so much dislike, and he knows my opinion is antagonistic to him in high levels, which would make him want to hate me. The difference is enormous.
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Yeahs1 -
01/23/2017 5:49 AM ·Spoilers
Someone having a different opinion than you doesn't mean they automatically hate you, no matter how extreme the difference is. This assuming that people are out to get you is extremely self-destructive and seriously needs to stop. You're telling yourself these things that aren't true and it has caused you nothing but unnecessary pain.
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01/23/2017 5:54 AM ·Spoilers
Normally it's not, but when I add up to other factors, even if they all seem to have explanations, I have this self-destructive behavior. Also, for this one, he thinks I'm similar to (actually terrible people), which means hate. I know it needs to stop and I believe I got a little better over time. But it's still there, and one doesn't magically heal themselves of these things.
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01/23/2017 6:08 AM ·Spoilers
But you're NOT similar to those people, and he didn't know that before, but now he's been made aware of it. There's no reason for hate. There's no magic cure, but it is something that can be changed over time, but you need to put forth the effort to improve instead of giving up just because it can't be fixed immediately.
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01/23/2017 6:14 AM ·Spoilers
100 comments... I'll bother you in another post. Sorry for filling this one.
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