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04/02/2017 7:00 PM ·Spoilers

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I need your guy's opinion on something...

Yes, yes; I haven't been online for awhile but dats okay cause that's not what I'm here to talk about! I actually have had feelings for a boy since I started seventh grade. We're both in the same grade and we both are the same age. I have a lot of feelings over this boy, I'm probably even growing an obsession over him.(Cont.)

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  • (He is no furry, just a regular boy) But, is he really worth me confusing my feelings and possibly getting rejected?His friends would torture me and judge me if I tell him and get rejected.I know it...But, I wanna let my stress out and just tell him. I plan to write him a note and give to him tomorrow in 4th period. Do you guys think I should do it or just forget about it? I wanna know what to do.

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  • i have no idea because im with my first bf and he asked me. probaly try to be friends with him like i said and hope he asks you?

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  • Maybe I should try that. We already know each other well and he barely knows the other girls. ... Maybe I'll just go with that...

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  • Try telling him how you feel and prepare for the rejection just in case. Or you could try becoming his friend and then when your both comfortable enough tell him. If he does reject then try to keep the friendship with him if you don't want to lose him.

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  • My advice sucks. :P

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  • Thanks Mel!

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  • I'm not trying to be rude but true love doesn't exist and never did.

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  • First off, don't just profess your love towards someone; be subtle about it. Take things slowly and establish a good friendship with the person in question. Once you've been friends for a while, try to see if you can hang out during lunch or something so you can start to get a better feel for him. It really depends on his personality, but taking things slowly is usually the best route.

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  • But you shouldn't dwell on this too much. You're not at the age where relationships are truly meaningful yet. Being a "boyfriend" or a "girlfriend" at that age means little in comparison to simply being "friends." Establish a strong friendship with him and maybe over time it will naturally progress from there.

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  • Just because I'm at an young age doesn't mean I don't know how relationships work...I'm not into him in the way other girls are- I want attention and someone to be there for me. Is that too much to ask for?

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  • @silver,what do you consider a younge age?

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  • Sorry, I'm not able to help.

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  • @AD: I didn't say you didn't know how relationships work, I said they aren't truly meaningful at your age in comparison to just being good friends. Having someone be there for you and give you attention sounds exactly like what a good friend should do. All I'm saying is that the title of "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" is pretty arbitrary at that age. Just focus on being good friends first.

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  • @MLG: I consider relationships to be pretty arbitrary until you actually have the independence to do things with that individual on your own. This can vary from person to person, but typically 16 is the age where someone can drive or ride public transit on their own to go on dates and such without a parent to drive them to and from the designated area. It's also a matter of maturity and the

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  • willingness to take things beyond being platonic. Like I said, it really varies from person to person. The general age I'd accept is 16, but it may be a bit higher or a bit lower than that depending on the individual.

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  • What I would say is to ether be friends with him first or just talk to him about it, I know I'm just a 5th grader giving avide to a 7th grader but if you do love him, then try to go for it, we believe in you!

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  • Problem is, I don't believe in myself...

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  • @silver,what do you think about almost 14?

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