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04/23/2017 6:44 AM ·Spoilers

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Self esteem (Don't even know how to write this right ..)

Idk why I'm writing this nor how what to say *sigh* I guess this would be just a big mess of stuff, sorry in advance.. So ppl like weekend I think right? Well I'm an exception I suppose, they destroy my self-confidence (Which is already non-existent), because working in the morning make so I can't sleep enough.

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  • Cobra

    04/23/2017 6:47 AM ·Spoilers

    I've not sleep well for over a month now.. so build stress and fatigue overtime, for the ones that don't know. So I'm working 7/7 (school+work) and have max 5-6h per day of "free". All this hard work is for so I can meet my best buddies. Been working for now over 6 months, never spending money (saving) so would have enough for them, working hard to see them

    Yeahs0

  • Cobra

    04/23/2017 6:50 AM ·Spoilers

    In all that school arrive, an extremely important governement exam in french is coming (less than 2 weeks) and if I fail or pass it it will change my life.. A life changing thing, doesn't help stressing bout that. So I've been trying to practice my french hours each day (Tho can't weekend cause the work..)

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  • Cobra

    04/23/2017 6:52 AM ·Spoilers

    Now bout the title (geez took a while o mention it o-o) I have so self-esteem and cannot believe in myself. I kind of say it's cause of how my mom raise me, always insulting me and saying all I do is bad to her, I'm apparently a bad kid for her.. Me trying to be "perfect" for her, when I'm proud of something I did, she just come and destroy hope by saying I just fail ;-;

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  • Cobra

    04/23/2017 6:55 AM ·Spoilers

    Can understand in long run that surely doesn't help. I get sad so easily but can be happy afterward so easily (Mostly cause I don't wanna see my buddies sad, that would be the worse) I think that's it?? No idea, having an headache, so surely doesn't help thinking :p

    Yeahs0

  • Cobra

    04/23/2017 7:01 AM ·Spoilers

    Even tho sad and destroy, u don't have to care bout the random person which is me. I wish u all a nice day, nice weekend, and remember this: When ur doing nothing, other ppl can be working hard, this free time u have, be happy to have it! U're all lucky to have some ^^

    Yeahs0

  • midnapanda

    04/23/2017 9:26 AM ·Spoilers

    ... I'm starting to have doubts on how effective my present will be for you. It was supposed to be something to help you feel better about yourself, something to maybe make you worry less. I doubt it'll make any difference now. I mean, I'll still send it! I'm just worried about you being so stressed and sad all the time...

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  • midnapanda

    04/23/2017 9:29 AM ·Spoilers

    And it sounds like whenever you are happy, it's like a facade, and nobody deserves that. If you're not happy, you don't have to pretend like it. I feel like that would be more painful for you, to pretend to be happy. I'm glad you posted here, because honestly, I've been running out of words to say to keep you determined...

    Yeahs1

  • Anju

    04/23/2017 8:31 PM ·Spoilers

    Mΐdna's definitely right -- don't try to fake your emotions. It's healthier to let them out than it is to bottle them all up, though I think it's something everyone does anyway. I know I have. There's definitely times that feel like they're impossible to get through, but once you do, there's also that "I did it!" feeling. On the flip side, when there are good times you can't remember exactly how

    Yeahs1

  • Anju

    04/23/2017 8:32 PM ·Spoilers

    hard things were when it was bad. It’s an annoying cycle for sure. Do you have any pets? Though it’s not another person, it’s been proven that interacting with animals makes people happier. If you don’t have pets, then maybe look for comfort in something from when you were younger, like a favorite book or toy. I actually used to carry a little piece of my baby blanket with me everywhere I went,

    Yeahs1

  • Anju

    04/23/2017 8:33 PM ·Spoilers

    and I kept that up all the way through middle school. Even though I’m almost 21 now, when I’m having a hard time, I STILL get out my favorite stuffed animal and hold it while letting my emotions out. I think it’s really dumb how in modern society it’s looked down on when people get emotional in public. We’re all human, so we’re allowed to make mistakes and be upset. Don’t let conforming to

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  • Anju

    04/23/2017 8:34 PM ·Spoilers

    society get in the way of being who you are. If you need to get something out of your system when you’re around friends, do it! Your friends will understand that you’re going through a hard time and do what they can to comfort you. I know that it’s hard to do because you don’t want to make your friends worry, but being true to yourself and your friends can also improve your friendship with them.

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  • Anju

    04/23/2017 8:35 PM ·Spoilers

    They should be glad that you’re being honest with them about how you feel. All of that sounds really intimidating to do, but you’ve already done it by talking with us here. I’m not sure what else to say and I’m really not that helpful anyway, but that’s just my two cents. I really do hope for the best.

    Yeahs1

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