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04/29/2017 6:57 PM ·Spoilers
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04/29/2017 6:58 PM ·Spoilers
Before I started considering many of my accquaintances 'friends' I would see them all the time but never notice it. There were many people I would see several times a month, but never think about it because I didn't really care either way.
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04/29/2017 7:06 PM ·Spoilers
It's great that I've grown closer to these people, but it also seems like I see them less and less. I used to see them weekly, but now it's rare for me to see them more than once a month. It really makes me feel sad.
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04/29/2017 7:08 PM ·Spoilers
It gets even worse when my friends are facing real issues. I try to help as much as I can over the internet, but it just isn't the same. I don't feel like I'm really doing anything to help. Text alone doesn't convey emotions the same way our actions and expressions do.
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04/29/2017 7:10 PM ·Spoilers
Urgh, the distance between these people just makes it worse, because I get so alienated when I finally spend time with them. I don't know how they'll react, so I just anxiously crack jokes and tell stories. I'm no help to them anymore. I can't consider myself a real friend when I see that it makes no difference for them. I can't do anything right.
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04/29/2017 7:56 PM ·Spoilers
You've got so much empathy, humor, and honesty. That's what I see in you. Many of us just wouldn't be the same without you, since you have a fascinating personality. You make an effort to talk to the ones you care about the most and that's okay...and in fact...
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04/29/2017 7:56 PM ·Spoilers
...At first when I knew you were around I got jealous of you, because you were everyone's friend but me. And when you wanted to be my friend I opened up to you in the end because of how kind you are. If people really like you then you are doing something great in their lives. You are very thoughtful to other people...I believe that.
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04/29/2017 7:58 PM ·Spoilers
It's okay if you can't solve everyone's problems, some things are beyond our control and that's fine. If you show people you care that's the best possible thing you can do in situations like that...
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04/29/2017 8:27 PM ·Spoilers
Wow, I never knew you actually thought that way about me. Truth is, when I first started hanging out on Miiverse more often, I wanted to start talking with more often, but I felt naturally intimidated and hesitated. I don't even remember when it was when I finally buckled up and started following you.
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04/29/2017 8:31 PM ·Spoilers
Like, I've always had a problem with being around others. I love the company of others, but I feel nervous around them. I had lots of bad experiences when I was at middle school age where people I thought were my friends started getting easily upset around me. They were always annoyed with me, and many of them didn't even consider me a friend.
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04/29/2017 8:34 PM ·Spoilers
Since then, I've suffered from being a socially anxious introvert. Just talking with people is hard for me because I don't know if they'll explode on me the same way my older 'friends' did. Just talking with my siblings is hard, and I literally LIVE with them.
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04/29/2017 8:37 PM ·Spoilers
I'm also not very proud of where I am in life right now. I'm not happy at all with what I've become. I'm not fit, I'm not smart, and I don't have the same natural talents others do. So talking with others is what I do to surpress that. I feel that if I can make /them/ happier, then I'll feel happy, too. It works, but then when I fail to make them happy I feel like I've failed at life.
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04/29/2017 8:38 PM ·Spoilers
That's sorta why I've been feeling bad today. Something came up and I couldn't say anything right and I feel like I just made the situation worse. Now I feel guilty about it and defeated. It's been a very rough day for me, but it's been even worse for others.
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04/29/2017 9:09 PM ·Spoilers
Your life is actually quite similar to mine, in fact; before I came on here I had no real friends, online or irl, and I didn't trust many people. (I still don't trust others in real life, much) I honestly feel bad that I try not to think about that fact much. Maybe because I get paranoid that life is an illusion and that everything is a lie...no really, I do feel that way occasionally.
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04/29/2017 9:09 PM ·Spoilers
But if it's people you want to care about, that's great, and not being able to solve problems isn't your fault if it's beyond you. I mean, compared to me, at least you are able to know not to blame things on yourself, while for me i'm in a constant conflict on whether things are my fault or not. It's...not good for my mental health.
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04/29/2017 9:10 PM ·Spoilers
But hey, the upside is, if you can't cheer a person up, that's fine. It may as well be for a number of reasons that aren't your fault. And you definitely are doing something right to me because if I lived in a noisy house like yours, i'd. Go. Irreversably nuts. And, nobody wants to see me like that. You should know it's special that you're able to handle that. ^^;
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04/30/2017 12:01 AM ·Spoilers
Maybe that's why I like you so much, Timeslip: We are quite alike. Similar interests, similar personalities, and similar issues that we have to face.
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