(From now on,I should just put a warning in.As in,'warning,I sound just like one of those motivational speakers.'Well,you certainly aren't the first person to tell me that.I do sound like that.And I,don't have a problem with it.I won't heaitate to offer some form of encouragement if someone is feeling down and awful.(I've spent too long like that.)Look,sometimes the most ridiculous words can help@