"Perhaps you are still too young to understand …" I still want to help you, Tom! You're not just my boss, you're my friend! "If you truly wish to help me, Lottie, you can do so best by not helping me at all! My love life, or lack thereof, is my own business. If, on the other hand, your desire to aid me stems from a feeling of your own powerlessness …" P-powerless!? Me!?