"You feel as if did not choose to fill that role, right? And yes you choose to remain in it every day. This reminds me of the parable of the waiter …" Sartre again? "Yes. You're living in bad faith, Miss Lottie: the belief that your current situation is forced upon you by factors you can't control. But while I am bound to bad faith by my very nature, your shackles are but illusions …" Sorry, no.