"No, Jacques. I mean she's talking about 'the monster'. 'The urges'. As if they're not her. Molly, you're othering that part of yourself!" 'Othering?' "She's refusing to accept that part of herself, instead casting is as an enemy to be opposed. And I'm sorry for inadvertently encouraging that behaviour in group." B-but I'm not … that person … "Yes, Molly, you are. And that's not a bad thing."