Hi Hayley,I hope you're ok after leaving him:( You tried very hard to help Mathew and hopefully it will bring about a good change for him.One day he will realise he lost a great friend in you, Hayley.I think you are an incredibly kind,caring and generous person and thankyou for trying to help Mathew after I left.It wouldn't have been easy and for that,you are a great person:)Take Care of yourself!